Dear MOTIVATION: I recently moved to a new city (Chicago) for work, and with the holidays approaching, I cannot shake the feeling of loneliness. I do not know anyone here, and all the holiday festivities seem to highlight my isolation. How can I find community and connection during this season? I’ve considered volunteering or attending local events, but I worry I’ll feel out of place or concerned about safety. Any suggestions on how to combat this loneliness while still embracing the holiday spirit? — ALONE IN CHICAGO

DEAR ALONE IN CHICAGO: Embrace the opportunity to meet new people! Look for local holiday events, community volunteer opportunities, or social classes that match your interests. Consider joining social media groups specific to your city; they often host gatherings and activities. Attend holiday markets or join a local book club. You might even find a local café that feels like home. Remember, others may feel the same way you do—reach out and invite someone to coffee or join you in an activity. You are not alone in your loneliness, and amidst this season of connection, you have the ripe opportunity to build meaningful relationships. I invitingly suggest that you get up, go out, and find and enjoy new connections this holiday season. Have a happy and wonderful Holiday Season!