Dear MOTIVATION: Every Thanksgiving, I look forward to sharing a meal with my family, but I often feel disheartened by the lack of gratitude shown by a few relatives. They rarely acknowledge the effort that goes into preparing the feast; heck, most of the time, it’s like the Value of GRATITUDE is non-existent in their heart or character, creating an uncomfortable atmosphere. I want to foster positivity and encourage appreciation without stirring up conflict. Do you have any tips on how to promote a sense of gratitude this holiday season? – GRATITUDE MATTERS! IN TEXAS

DEAR GRATITUDE MATTERS: Consider setting the tone by initiating a gratitude round before the meal. Encourage each guest to share something they’re thankful for, creating a shared moment of appreciation. Alternatively, you could write little notes expressing your gratitude for each family member and place them at their seats. This gentle approach can inspire others to reflect on thankfulness, fostering warmth without conflict. Wishing you a joyful Thanksgiving!