Dear MOTIVATION: Thanksgiving is just around the corner, and I’m already dreading the family gathering. Our family has become increasingly divided over political issues, and I worry that this year’s dinner will ignite heated debates. I want to enjoy the holiday, but how can I gently steer conversations away from divisive topics without causing tension? I love my family and want to keep the atmosphere light and enjoyable, but I fear that someone might bring up their political views. Any advice on how to handle this would be greatly appreciated! – HOPING TO STEER AWAY THE POLITICAL DIVIDE IN PHILADELPHIA

DEAR HOPING TO STEER AWAY: Thanksgiving is about togetherness, not division. To navigate political tensions, set the tone early by initiating a heartwarming toast that focuses on gratitude. Encourage discussing shared interests or memories that evoke laughter and joy. If someone brings up politics, gently redirect the conversation by asking about hobbies, travel plans, or holiday traditions. If the topic resurfaces, express your desire for a harmonious gathering and suggest a “no politics” rule for the evening. With kindness and a little creativity, you can foster a joyous family atmosphere. Enjoy your Thanksgiving!