Dear MOTIVATION: As Christmas Eve and Day approaches, I feel an overwhelming desire to honor my late husband during our family dinner. I want his spirit to be part of our celebration, but I also want to maintain a joyful atmosphere. What are some heartwarming ways to acknowledge his memory without dampening the holiday spirit? Can I incorporate traditions that reflect his personality or share anecdotes that will bring smiles amid the tears? I want my children and family to feel his presence positively—any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. — HEARTFELT INTENTIONS IN TENNESSEE

DEAR HEARTFELT INTENTIONS: It’s beautiful that you wish to honor your husband while celebrating the holidays. Consider sharing a cherished memory or a funny story about him that can spark laughter and positive reflection. You might set a place for him at the table with a lit vanilla scented candle, allowing everyone to remember him collectively. Prepare his favorite dish and discuss its significance, creating a connection among family members. Encouraging your children, family members, or friends to share their favorite memories can also foster a joyful atmosphere. Celebrate his life and legacy, and remember that it’s possible to honor him with love and joy in your hearts.