Dear MOTIVATION: I’m holding on with both hands this holiday season. Though I’m employed and showing up at work to work hard each day, my money is funny this holiday season (finances are tight), and honestly, I’m behind on a few bills. As Christmas day approaches, my spirit feels low, and I lack the motivation to go anywhere or celebrate. I’m not feeling this season at all, it feels a little off to me. I wish I could give more to family and friends, but I’m struggling just to maintain myself. Brother, what advice or motivation can you offer a hardworking brother like me who wants to give and enjoy the holiday season, but this year I can’t due to money challenges? — HOLDING ON WITH BOTH HANDS IN BALTIMORE CITY

DEAR HOLDING ON: First, you are not alone. Many people feel the same or similar pressure during the holiday season. Financial (money) struggles can weigh heavily on our hearts. Remember, the season’s true spirit is not in material gifts but in kindness and connection. Consider volunteering your time instead of money; it can uplift your spirits while making a positive impact and connection. Reach out to caring loved ones for support—sharing our burdens or current challenges lightens the load. Focus on small joys: a warm meal, a call to a friend, a handmade gift, or a walk in your neighborhood, taking in the lights, decorations, and the holiday season. Celebrate the resilience you show every day; even though you’re behind on bills, you still get up and make it to work. Also, your heart stays engaged in wanting to help and give to others. Self-compassion is vital, especially now; permit yourself to feel your feelings. You’re doing your best, and that’s enough. Reflect on the good things and put together a plan to take the necessary action to get yourself caught up on bills. Make it your goal to be in a better position financially when the holiday season comes around next year. Press on, brother, and enjoy this year’s holiday season the best you can.