Dear MOTIVATION: I feel torn about my best friend’s new relationship. She is dating a wonderful guy, and the truth is, I’ve always had feelings for him. It’s been hard watching them together, and I can’t help but feel jealous. I care deeply about my friend, but the more I see them, the more my feelings grow. Should I confess my feelings to my friend and risk our relationship, or should I keep quiet and try to push these feelings aside? I’m scared of losing either of them. — TORN BETWEEN HEARTS IN NEW YORK
DEAR TORN BETWEEN HEARTS: Navigating this situation is undoubtedly tricky. Honesty is important, but so is loyalty. Consider whether acting on your feelings will truly benefit anyone involved. You might decide to keep your feelings to yourself for now; memories of this time can help you process your emotions. However, if your feelings intensify, communicating openly with your friend may be essential. Prioritize your friendship, and try to focus on your happiness rather than on what-ifs.